I don’t think it is necessary to actually “come out” to anyone. It’s not like we are some kind of aliens that have been hiding because of the fear that humans will treat is different. We are all equal and just because others don’t get it and don’t understand our sexual preference, does not mean they deserve an explanation. The gay community have this “come out of the closet” stereotype that pretty much says that in order for us to be accepted we have to be out. In my opinion we all have been “out” since we were born and just because we haven’t told anyone about our preference does not mean we are keeping it a secret or we are inside a god damn closet! For many people there is no need because is normal, we feel different once we feel the need to come out.
Many families don’t understand and take years to accept it and others never do. And when we are so afraid of that situations, we can never be happy and be ourselves. If coming out will make you feel better then go ahead. If you don’t feel ready spiritually then stay the way you are. But that does not mean you can’t be who you are. In fact, embrace your sexual preference, be brave, happy and strong and don’t let anyone tell you, you can’t be who you want to be, because you are so god damn special and no one can take that away from you!!! XOXO
For all who still find it difficult to live in this Messed Up STRAIGHT World……Hopefully This Can Help You Along….and Keep you on the right Track and frame of Mind!!! >____<